Category: Real Life Stories

  • Ring…

    Ring…

    Thank you to Lois Jane Siraco for sharing her story.

    At 19 years old, Norman and Martha found themselves unexpectedly pregnant. Norman went overseas to serve in the military and Martha’s disapproving parents sent her to a home for unwed mothers. Martha was left feeling alone and abandoned by her family and Norman. The decision to place her beautiful baby girl up for adoption was made for her before she gave birth to her on July 8, 1950. After the birth of Lois Jane, Martha hoped that one day, she would be reunited with her.

    Years later, Norman returned home and the two married and went on to have two sons. Martha continued to secretly hope that someday she would find her lost daughter and tell her the truth.

    On February 6, 1983, I, Lois Jane, made a life-changing decision. On that beautiful winter Saturday, I spoke to my mother (Martha) for the first time in 32 years. Fear and anxiety surrounded me as I picked up the phone to call my mother, but these were quickly replaced with tears of joy when I spoke with her, years of mystery were finally gone.

    On July 8, 1983, my biological mother and father threw me a first birthday party, party hats and all. My parents courageously introduced me to the entire family, many of whom did not know of her deep, dark secret.

    One story we love to share is the day my “mother” met my mother. My adoptive mother, Cordelia, and my biological mother, and I met to have lunch. This helped both mothers to heal the wounds in their hearts. It also made me very proud to have two wonderful, powerful mothers. One phone call can change your life. It did mine.


    Images: Lois Jane and her adoptive mother Cordelia

  • My Son

    My Son

    Thank you to Jeff Joaquin for sharing his story of post-abortive healing and forgiveness. Jeff Joaquin’s full story of finding forgiveness can be found on his YouTube channel and it is featured on the latest LifeBeat podcast episode. Jeff originally shared his story while speaking at men’s retreats and small groups. He is now sharing his story with the world in hopes that it will inspire others to seek forgiveness. As a part of the process of Jeff’s healing, he wrote a letter to his son.

    “I am Sorry, My Son”

    As you are very well aware, you started your journey in life in July of 1987 (35 years ago) in the womb of your Mother…

    It must have seemed unusual for you to watch as your Father secretly borrowed $200 from a friend to pay for your first trip to the “Doctor” ….

    It must have been difficult for you when your Mother entered the building for your “appointment”, and your Father didn’t even have the courage to come in to join both of you….

    It must have been unthinkable for you, when you saw your Mother lying on the table in unadulterated fear as the “Doctor” began the “procedure” ….

    “Why are my Mother and Father letting this happen to me…” I can imagine were your thoughts as a complete stranger took your life with nobody there to defend you….

    Jonathan Andrew Joaquin, I am SO SORRY for what I have done to you….

    I AM SORRY, that you will never be able to take your first steps into the loving arms of your parents…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never be able to fill your lungs with a deep breath of fresh air…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to speak your first words to the amazement of your parents…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never be able to have a birthday party and blow out the candles….

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get the chance to board the bus for your first day of school…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to play any of the sports that I am sure you would have enjoyed…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to meet your cousins, aunts or uncles who would have loved to spend time with you….

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to meet your grandparents who would have loved you beyond measure…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to meet your sister Faith who is 19 years old now as I write you this letter…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never be able to feel the sun on your face…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get to feel the wind at your back….

    I AM SORRY, that you will miss your High School graduation….

    I AM SORRY, that you will never have the opportunity of going off to college and getting a degree…

    I AM SORRY, that you will never have the opportunity of carving out your future in this world….

    I AM SORRY, that you will never get the opportunity of growing up and getting married and having children of your own….

    I AM SORRY, that you and I will never be able to play catch with a football in the back yard…

    I AM SORRY, that you and I will never get to go to a baseball game and eat a hotdog together….

    I AM SORRY, that you and I will never get to share some of life’s ups and downs together….

    I AM SORRY, that you and I will never get to spend a day out on the water fishing and enjoying the day together…

    I AM SORRY, that I put your Mother in a position to do the unthinkable with your precious life…

    I AM SORRY, that I didn’t have the courage to stand up for your life and allow you the opportunity of entering into this world….

    I AM SORRY, for choosing MY future over YOURS….

    I AM SORRY, that I used my gift of free choice to prevent you from having yours….

    I AM SORRY, for allowing a complete stranger to vacuum you out of your Mother’s womb and discard you in the trash…you are not Biomedical waste, but a human being…

    I AM SORRY, for not defending your rights as a wonderfully created image of God and all the dignity that goes with that….

    I AM SORRY, for ignoring my crime for so many years before accepting my responsibility….

    I AM SORRY, for waiting so many years before seeking Reconciliation with the God of the Universe who knew you before He formed you in the womb (Jeremiah 1:4)

    I AM SORRY, for waiting so many years before I had the courage to apologize to your Mother for putting both of you in that unthinkable position…

    I AM SORRY, for waiting so many years before I apologized directly to you for my involvement in your murder….

    I AM SORRY, for waiting so many years before I gave you the dignity of naming you and taking accountability for my actions….

    I AM SORRY, for waiting so many decades before I started to pray to you every day and ask for your prayers for me….

    I AM SORRY, that I have not been a better advocate for other men and women who have participated in an abortion…

    I AM SORRY, for being afraid to tell our story for many years and thus denying other men and women the gift of opening up their hearts and souls to the forgiveness of God…

    I AM SORRY, that I was not the Father that you deserved to have in this world…

    I AM SORRY, that I still have not forgiven myself completely for taking your life…

    I know with certainty that we will meet one day in Heaven where we will share the embrace of Love that I so long to share with you today, but in the meantime my son, I ask for your prayers of forgiveness and Mercy and know that your Father loves you from the bottom of his heart and he is SO SORRY for what he has done to you….

    I know as you hold Jesus’ hand right now and both of you are looking down on me with complete and unconditional forgiveness, I ask for your prayers that one day I will be able to completely forgive myself for taking your precious life….

    I AM SO SORRY, my Son….

    Jeff Joaquin 6/11/2021

  • Abortion: A Physician’s Story

    Abortion: A Physician’s Story

    Thank you to Dr. Shelly Theobald for sharing her story.

    Abortion: A Physician’s Story

    As many of you know or can at least tell by my Facebook page, I am not one to “post” much and generally consider myself a non-Facebooker. Since first learning about the new legislative laws being passed on abortion in New York, I was immediately reminded of a wise friend’s words, to me, 5 years ago as she urged me to make “my story” public. She stated that prior to hearing about my experience, she knew very little about what actually happens in an abortion and believed that most people do not understand and likely do not even think much about the actual abortive procedure.

    She strongly felt that everyone should be made aware of what actually happens in an abortion and that only through education can there be change. At the time, I shrugged it off. I did not grow up in the United States and try to stay out of politics and social media as much as possible. But I do have a story: a story that still makes me feel sick and want to cry, 8 years later. I am not sure it will make a difference or even be read by more than just my family and friends, but that is no reason to not speak out.

    I was in my 3rd year of medical school in Beer Sheva, Israel and was excited to be starting my obstetrician and gynecology rotation at Soroka Medical Center. One day, we were told that we would be rotating through several clinical exam rooms to experience the various “fields” of OB/GYN.

    I was switching with my classmates to enter a room where a “procedure” was taking place. There was a pregnant lady lying on a standard OB/GYN exam bed who was apparently consciously sedated. Next to her was an ultrasound machine and I smiled as I saw a baby about 17 weeks gestation floating peacefully in its amniotic sack, it’s tiny heart beat flickering on the monitor screen.

    I still had no idea what the “procedure” was until suddenly I saw a long pointed object come into the triangular view of the ultrasound monitor and I watched in horror as the “tool” suddenly jabbed straight at the little baby. The baby immediately jolted violently as it reacted to the pain of the stab. I could not move: I felt paralyzed, dumbfounded. I remember thinking, “This mother needs to wake up and see what they are doing to her baby! She needs to know!”

    The stabs kept coming and the baby continued to reel, its little arms and legs flailing and punching in the amniotic fluid as it fought to survive. It felt like an eternity but finally the movement stopped. The stabs kept coming, but the life was gone and the struggle was over. The little hands that only moments earlier seemed to wave at me from the ultrasound monitor were severed off!

    Bit by bit, the baby was cut into indistinguishable pieces of tissue and the skull was crushed. Next came the vacuum, and as the doctor who performed the “procedure” pulled out the pieces of conception, I heard him chuckle. He turned to us, and with a grin I will never forget, he held up one of those tiny, perfect hands with forceps and reached it out to each of us saying, “high five, high five,” and laughed each time! I looked at him with disbelief!

    After my shock wore off I asked why the mother had chosen to have an abortion and he replied with a shrug that he was not sure, but said if he remembered right, she had possibly been exposed to a varicella­ zoster (the chicken pox), and therefore wanted an abortion. He shrugged again, then under his breath, he said, “you know, everyone needs their excuse,” and left the room.

    I have no idea what that young mother was going through or her reasons for wanting an abortion. I have no idea what she was told about abortion or if she had the procedure explained to her in any detail. I do not write this to judge or condemn this mother or any other mother. I only want to create awareness because I want to believe that if that mother was awake and was able to see her little baby waving to her from the monitor—if she saw the long “tool” and knew that was about to stab her baby to pieces—that she would never have chosen to abort her baby.

    I understand this is not always the way babies are aborted, and often, at earlier gestations, chemicals are used. You could argue that chemicals are a more humane way, but even Hitler used “humaneness” to calmly kill Jews in gas chambers. The arguments about when a life is a life are meaningless to me: that day I witnessed a baby literally fighting for its life, reacting to the jabs of death just like any “live” person would.

    I do not claim to be political. I am neither a Democrat nor a Republican, as I do not like to be boxed in to any belief system and instead prefer to form my own. On one hand I am entirely against abortion in any form (with the exception of the extremely rare cases that you can ask me about), yet I also strongly believe in the necessity of social service programs to help that mother and her new baby. More than anything, I am prolife and believe that the little baby I saw stabbed to death that day had a right to say no!

    Shelly Theobald, MD
    Family Medicine with an emphasis in OB

    Note: Varicella-zoster is a “TORCH” infection and could potentially cause harm to a baby in utero. If the mother had actually contracted the virus—not just been exposed—there would have been about a 0.5-2% chance of the baby having birth defects.

  • Isabella’s Fight

    Isabella’s Fight

    Isabella VanOrman is a fighter, there is no doubt about it.

    Born with Trisomy 18, the chromosomal condition more commonly known as Edward’s Syndrome, there was a 90 percent chance she would never see her first birthday, but at three years old, Isabella has beaten the odds time and time again.

    Like many children diagnosed with chromosomal abnormalities, Isabella’s battle began before she was even born. When her 25-week ultrasound took unexpectedly long her parents Jared and Sabina knew something was wrong.

    “They kept going back to her heart,” Sabina said. “They looked at her head, they looked at her feet, but they kept going back to her heart.”

    The doctor’s prognosis was not good. In addition to Trisomy 18, Isabella had a two-vessel cord, cysts in her brain, and a massive hole in her heart. The VanOrmans were told that their daughter was incompatible with life and were encouraged to terminate. When they refused to even consider an abortion, their doctor pressured them to sign the forms just in case they changed their minds. Again, they refused.

    Jared and Sabina chose that day to fight for Isabella and the family never looked back.

    “I told the doctor, if she dies in five minutes, five hours, or inside of me it didn’t matter; we were going to fight for her,” Sabina said.

    The initial part of that fight was learning about Isabella’s condition and finding doctors willing to look past the Trisomy 18 and treat her as they would any other child. They found help through Facebook support groups and were able to answer the only question that mattered: “If you take the chromosome out of the equation, can she live? The answer was yes,” Sabina said.

    Isabella must get her fighting spirit from her parents. For more than three years now, they have refused to take “no” for an answer and have had to fight with an unwilling medical community to treat their daughter. The VanOrmans fought for weekly prenatal check-ups to monitor Isabella’s health. They fought for a scheduled early delivery, for surgeries to help Isabella breath, and fought for their daughter to receive a much-needed pulmonary artery band—the first Trisomy 18 patient to ever receive one at the Helen Devos Children’s Hospital in Grand Rapids.

    After three years, the fight is still not over. Isabella is still in need of a heart surgery and has ongoing problems with breathing and allergies, but her parents are not giving up.

    “I’m going to protect my kid, because that is what you do,” Sabina said.

    Unfortunately, most families facing prenatal diagnoses like Isabella’s choose not to fight. Instead, they choose to end the lives of their children in the womb, or succumb to pressure from doctors telling them to give up.

    It is a disturbing reality that so many children with treatable conditions are thrown away at the recommendation of medical professionals. Isabella is proof that doctors can be wrong and that children with Trisomy 18 and other chromosomal conditions can thrive, if only given the chance.

    So, what advice do the VanOrman’s have for parents facing difficult prenatal diagnoses?

    “Research and follow your heart, they are worth fighting for,” Sabina said.

    Indeed, every life is worth fighting for; Isabella is worth fighting for.

  • Can We Dismember the Disabled? Are They Less Valuable?

    Can We Dismember the Disabled? Are They Less Valuable?

    On December 23, 2019, the signatures of 379,419 Michigan citizens were submitted to the Michigan Bureau of Elections to initiate legislation to end dismemberment abortions in Michigan. A dismemberment abortion is the most common late-term abortion procedure.

    Abortion advocates know that late-term abortions are unpopular. Even many people who describe themselves as “pro-choice” intuitively understand that something is wrong with taking the life of a child old enough to survive outside the womb.

    Knowing this, abortion advocates often focus on late-term abortions in extreme cases. Their go-to narrative involves a pregnancy where the child in the womb has been diagnosed with a serious condition. There are two big problems with this narrative.

    The first problem is accuracy. The abortion industry’s own published research indicates most late-term abortions are for economic or social reasons; they have no connection with the stories presented in supposedly objective news stories. Some people—even presidential candidates—have heard this narrative so often they literally believe late-term abortions are only used on disabled children. They won’t publicly defend aborting a supposedly healthy child at 24 weeks of pregnancy, even though that’s the most common late-term abortion situation.

    The second problem is that this late-term abortion narrative assumes children with disabilities have less value than able-bodied children. We can put a face to the mother or parents placed in a truly difficult situation, which certainly many prolife parents have faced. Sadly, we can’t put a face on the child diagnosed with a disability in the womb—we can’t physically see them or hear from them.

    We can see these children after birth, and even hear their voice. The disabled do have a face, and too often they are shut out of the discussion. Here’s one child to consider, Faith Smith.

    Faith has Trisomy 18, also known as Edwards Syndrome. It’s often referred to as a fatal condition or explained to parents as being “incompatible with life.” Faith’s life obviously defies those cold, clinical words. Faith is no more incompatible with life than you or anyone else, all of us someday destined to pass away from this world.

    Faith’s parents, Brad and Jesi Smith, have seen first-hand how our society and medical system has a built-in prejudice for the disabled. As soon as the prenatal ultrasound for Faith came back showing an abnormality, aborting Faith was suggested to them by a genetics counselor. The Smiths rejected this “advice” out of hand.

    “Faith’s individual personhood, both genetically and biologically apparent through every measurable medical test, never gave me the right to own her little life, body and soul,” said Jesi of her daughter.

    Contempt for Faith’s life didn’t end with abortion suggestions. A hospital ethics board tried to refuse treatment for Faith after her birth. In another situation, Faith almost died of asphyxiation in her crib because doctors withheld information about effective treatments for her. Request for treatments as cheap and simple as a c-pap mask went ignored, let alone newer treatments and interventions now available.

    “It makes you wonder if those medical workers are refusing to acknowledge and adapt to the new science and innovation because of ignorance or extreme bias,” Jesi said.

    Major strides have been made to provide care for children who have Trisomy 18. Part of the reason some disabilities are deemed “fatal” is so many of the children with the disability have their lives taken from them in the womb. “Incompatible with life” becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy when nobody is willing to invest time in caring for these children.

    Look no further than the story of U.S. Congresswoman Jaime Herrera Beutler. Her daughter didn’t develop kidneys in the womb and was deemed to have zero chance to survive. The Beutlers’ refusal to accept uneducated pessimism led them to find a doctor willing to take a chance on their daughter, Abigail. It turns out her condition was treatable using a simple saline solution, enough to get her to birth and then working out a kidney transplant. Today, Abigail Beutler is 6 years old. How many children like Abigail had their lives ended in the womb—dismembered limb from limb—because they were deemed life unworthy of life by healthcare workers who pressured their parents?

    “Innovative and courageous doctors who do not discriminate against babies based on their disabilities have done for children with Faith’s ‘fatal fetal anomaly’ what was once done for children with Down syndrome,” Jesi said. “They treated them like any other valuable human being and gave medical care when it was needed.”

    Faith’s life and the struggles placed in her path by people who don’t see her as fully human have made Brad and Jesi passionate advocates. Brad recently began working for Right to Life of Michigan. The Smith’s testimony helped change state law in 2013 to stop hospitals from secretly consigning the disabled to death as “futile” cases. Brad and Jesi have both told Faith’s story to many audiences over the years.

    Life for Faith is not without her own health struggles. Her Trisomy 18 will impact her every day of her life. Jesi calls out our definition of “quality of life” and points out Faith is happy, smiles, and is loved every day.

    “There are many living, happy, and yes, disabled children with so called ‘fatal fetal anomalies’ not just here in Michigan but all over the country,” Jesi said.

    The Smiths are active in SOFT, the Support Organization for Trisomy. Jesi believes their recent 2019 conference at the University of Michigan’s Mott Children’s Hospital helped encourage Governor Whitmer to declare March 2019 as Trisomy 18 Awareness Month in Michigan.

    Increasing awareness of people who have Trisomy 18 is important, but awareness is fruitless if these children’s right to live isn’t respected. A ban on dismemberment abortion doesn’t ban all late-term abortions, but it would give parents pause before considering late-term abortion. A dismemberment ban certainly would stop a uniquely barbaric act which even people who call themselves “pro-choice” are uncomfortable with.

    “Even if we call it legal 2nd trimester abortion or a ‘choice,’ I do not have the right as a mother to deliberately tear my daughter’s body apart limb by limb, crush her skull, and then reassemble my daughter’s body outside the womb to make sure we ripped out every finger and toe with perfect impunity,” Jesi said.

    Michigan’s end dismemberment petition drive isn’t an academic question, but an issue with life and death consequences for children like Faith. Her life forces us to ask real questions about what it means to exclude the disabled from the possibility of human rights.

    Is Faith less of a human being than you? If we can’t dismember Faith now as an 11-year old little girl, could we have done it at birth, perhaps? If we would be horrified while watching her facial expression and listening to her cries as she was systemically torn limb from limb as a premature newborn baby, how is it any less horrific if it happened in the womb at the same stage?

    “Perhaps our society should take up the old-time Scottish term for individuals with mental and physical handicaps and call them ‘innocents,’” Jesi said. “They are innocent people. They have done nothing to warrant such hatred or fear just by living.”

  • 21st Century Prolife Healthcare

    21st Century Prolife Healthcare

    “One day it just hit me that they are dead serious about taking over the healthcare system.”

    That was the thought that inspired Mark Blocher to begin his latest venture, a nonprofit prolife clinic offering direct primary healthcare.

    Mark has had a diverse list of adventures. He’s founded an inner-city medical clinic. He’s founded pregnancy help centers. He’s been a university professor. He’s been a chaplain with the state police. He’s a bioethicist who has written a book about end of the life care.

    Mark’s latest adventure truly began when he was starting out as a pastor in Montana one day in the early 1980s. One of the members of Mark’s church stormed into his office. The member had found a business card for an abortion facility tucked in her daughter’s jeans. Her daughter had been escorted across state lines by her school counselor to Washington, where she had an abortion. If the business card hadn’t been left in the laundry, her parents would never have known.

    It became clear to Mark that abortion was not being addressed by laws, churches, or by society in general. Rather than simply wish someone would do something about that, Mark decided to act.

    Mark started local prolife groups in Montana, but it wasn’t long before he ended up moving back to the Grand Rapids area, where he grew up. He didn’t waste time making sure his fellow pastors were aware that there was a huge problem that wasn’t being addressed enough in their churches.

    Mark said, “I asked those guys, ‘what are you going to do about abortion?’”

    He continued beating the drums to get more people involved in directly addressing abortion as a crisis for young women. The result of his efforts was founding a prolife pregnancy help center in downtown Grand Rapids, Alpha Women’s Center. His original center is still helping women and men today, and additional independent pregnancy help centers in West Michigan have grown directly out of it.

    Pregnancy help centers have saved many lives by reaching abortion-vulnerable women. At first, many offered pregnancy tests along with diapers, formula, clothing, etc. In recent years, many centers have been going “medical,” offering ultrasounds, sexually-transmitted disease testing, and other health services. Mark was at the forefront of that change, which he said was difficult because of fears that adding “medical” services would invite legal scrutiny from pro-abortion officials looking to squash abortion industry competitors.

    Despite these important advances, Mark believes there is still an unaddressed gap.

    “Too often, what happens is when that mom says she wants to continue her pregnancy, we send her off to a Medicaid provider or someone else who doesn’t share a life-affirming view,” he said.

    Enter Mark’s “Healthy Tomorrows,” a program to help pregnancy centers provide client care. The program is part of his new direct primary care nonprofit, Christian Healthcare Centers. Mark foresees networks of prolife healthcare centers supporting pregnancy centers with full-service maternity care alongside well-woman and well-child medical care.

    Direct primary care is an alternative model for offering basic medical services at a doctor’s office. Instead of going to your doctor’s office and billing the services to an insurance company, patients pay a small monthly fee to receive unlimited primary care services. Because most health insurance plans have high deductibles, most insured patients wind up paying for basic medical care out-of-pocket anyway. The direct primary care “subscription” is designed to reduce the overhead for the clinic, freeing doctors and nurses from insurance paperwork to devote more time to seeing patients, and ultimately reduce the overall cost to the patient.

    Mark began thinking about creating specifically prolife medical clinics after the 1993 “Hillarycare” effort. Mark said it dawned on him that the Clinton Administration’s efforts to reform healthcare would place politicians and bureaucrats eager to support abortion in control of the entire industry, from the insurance companies right down to your doctor’s office.

    At the time, Mark said his idea didn’t have much traction; hospitals weren’t consolidating as often as they do today, and health insurance costs weren’t as much of an issue. The situation changed when Obamacare was being debated and eventually passed into law. Mark said he began kicking the idea around, even hiring a lawyer to determine if direct primary care was feasible under current laws and regulations.

    “It was that proverbial restaurant napkin idea,” he said.

    Mark said they were unaware of other experiments around the country in the direct primary care model, which is growing in popularity. Mark believes what separates Christian Healthcare Centers from existing primary care clinics is a focus on the patient’s spiritual and emotional wellbeing. He said his organization starts from the principle of each patient is made in the image of God. For him, that means they don’t turn patients away. They pray with and for their patients, many of whom do not attend church. They incorporate counseling services into their practice, seeking to treat the mind and the body together.

    “If you ask a person what they need help changing in their life, they never say, ‘if you could just fix my blood pressure…,” Mark said.

    Mark believes the doctor/patient relationship has been eroded in part because doctors spend a lot of time dealing with insurance paperwork and administration. He believes improving the doctor-patient relationship is an important factor in helping women choose life. While pregnancy help centers see many patients and save many lives, there are still hundreds of thousands of women who have abortions who don’t set foot in them.

    “Women are not abortion vulnerable only when they are pregnant,” he said.

    While providing a prolife continuum of care option for pregnancy help centers is important, Mark’s long-term goal is to reach young women before they even deal with a crisis pregnancy. He hopes the more patient-centered focus of the direct primary care model translates into doctors having meaningful trust and a long-term relationship with a woman who might have a crisis pregnancy.

    Mark said, “Do you want her to call the campus health center, which will just ship her off to the abortion clinic? Or do you want her to talk to her doctor, who she’s known all of her life?”

    The rise of the abortion pill, RU-496, is one reason Mark believes it’s critically important for the prolife movement to reach women as early as possible. When abortion supporters say, “abortion should be between a woman and her doctor,” they don’t really mean it. Only 1.8% of women who had abortions in 2018 were referred to the abortion facility by their doctor, according to 2018 Michigan abortion statistics. Recently, some abortion supporters have conducted studies looking into selling RU-486 over the counter, with the false promise that abortion is as simple as heading to the pharmacy in your supermarket.

    Opening a direct primary care nonprofit clinic can be complicated, but Mark said they have been successful and now have a gameplan others can follow. Christian Healthcare Centers opened in 2017 and has more than 2000 patients as members. They are looking to create additional centers in West Michigan. Mark said it takes some start-up funding and about 1,000 members to start a new clinic, but it becomes self-funding after that. Adding more members allows more free services to be given to those in need. Mark added that he has no shortage of doctors and nurses willing to work under the direct primary care model.

    Currently, Christian Healthcare Centers offers pediatrics, family medicine, and OB-GYN care. They can provide X-rays, routine lab tests, ultrasounds, and dispense some medication on site. Mark said backing these services is their mental health counseling and spiritual care.

    Mark’s vision extends beyond primary care, though his dreams exceed his current resources. His next step is adding outpatient surgical services. He believes even prolife birthing centers and hospitals could be possible. In many ways, developing a specifically prolife health care system is comparable to the original creation of hospitals in the Middle Ages as Christian centers of charity and health care.

    Mark also hopes he can address another problem related to abortion through building an alternative system: if abortion supporters completely take over the current system, where will prolife doctors practice medicine? The question of conscience rights involves not only abortion, but end-of-life issues as well. Besides the benefit of not having to put up with insurance paperwork, Mark believes expressly prolife healthcare clinics will provide a sanctuary for doctors and nurses from being asked—or forced—to take part in destroying human life.

    “We wouldn’t have to beg people to work in them,” Mark said.

    Rebuilding our entire medical system from the ground up may be Mark’s long-term dream, but he’s always focused on a successful next step. His current goal is providing pregnancy help centers with the complementary prolife doctors and services to compete directly with Planned Parenthood, which often refers to pregnancy help centers as “fake clinics.”

    Planned Parenthood and abortion supporters have been successful in driving a wedge between young girls and their parents. They succeeded in convincing that teen girl in Montana to have an abortion more than 30 years ago; if anything, Planned Parenthood’s support for abortion has become more extreme. As evidence, Mark points to the firing of Planned Parenthood President Leana Wen for her naïve belief that her organization meant it when they talked about providing comprehensive life-saving care to women.

    Mark wants every city with an abortion facility in it to also have a full-service prolife medical clinic there, connected to the local pregnancy help centers, churches, adoption agencies and other nonprofits. He said the best argument for elected officials wanting to defund Planned Parenthood is being able to point to an alternative that doesn’t cost a taxpayer dime.

    Mark believes that when the prolife movement can provide women with a complete care path—from the pregnancy center to the doctor and the counselor—Planned Parenthood can’t compete.

    “We want to do to Planned Parenthood what Netflix did to Blockbuster,” Mark said.

    Based on Mark Blocher’s long list of past successes, he may just be able to do it.

  • The Burden of Unplanned Pregnancy

    The Burden of Unplanned Pregnancy

    Thank you to Annabel Karsten for sharing her testimony with us, which she originally shared at her church.

    Hi, my name is Annabel, and after I heard that this week was going to be about abortion, I felt God tugging at my heart to share my story. So I’m going to do my best as this is still a very fresh, emotional journey for me.

    Two pink lines. A positive pregnancy test. I’m 17. Senior in high school, and living the best days of my life. On the high school dance team with an upcoming dance scholarship for college that I was so excited about.

    Sitting on my bed, everything I had ever thought for my future came crashing down in an instant. How could this be happening to me? I could feel the shame come over me like a big, thick blanket. I wanted to wake up from this horrible nightmare, but it wouldn’t go away. I spent the following weeks and months in a depression, hardly talking to anyone, and agonizing over what others would think of me when I finally shared my news. I kept it a secret from the public for 3 months.

    The burden of that weight is indescribable. The fears, the words, the situations that play out in your mind are endless. I just wanted those thought to go away. And how would this little, perfect town ever forgive me? It’s awesome for football support, but wow, when you do a big sin, like get caught having sex because now you’re pregnant, that’s a whole different game.

    I got placed on a whole new level of judgement. I heard it over and over. I believe that this is the hardest mental battle for leading girls to choosing life for unborn babies: the shame. Will the church still love me? Will I be accepted for what I did? Will I have support, and how will my life go on after this? They’re questions that hold so much weight—weight that is too heavy to carry on your own, for most. Satan so badly wanted to be at the forefront of every thought and decision because he wanted my story that God intended to write. But I knew my quiet sin had to go public because there’s no hiding a baby bump unless I chose to get rid of it.

    I only had to see the little 4-week-old heartbeat to know that I had a choice. I was given the option for a quick fix, but to have life long consequences of knowing that I stopped a heartbeat. But then no one would ever know, and I could keep on going with the plan for my life. This wasn’t honestly God’s plan for me, right? I have college, a dance scholarship, my dignity, my pride. Do you know how good another option sounds to so many that are in my position? Or, I could believe that this little life inside of me wanted to have a voice in her future. To know that she was given a chance to become something great.

    Why does this option have to be so difficult to believe? Why do the lies of Satan look so tempting? Let me tell you why: because many times I was told from my Christian community that this is a private situation, not to celebrated. I didn’t deserve a gender-reveal party or baby showers. I should be on my own, and feeling the dark side of my condition: my sin. My shame was my own fault. Do you know how many girls choose an abortion because of shame? That is so wrong, and I am here to tell you that there is hope in the midst of the shame. But I can also say I finally understand why so many take the other option. And if you have, I’m sorry. Because for some it’s too much to deal with the guilt you have to face on a daily basis of being an unwed mom. And they have no support.

    But the beautiful chapter in my story is this: I didn’t choose an abortion. I found small pieces of strength to hang on to, and that’s what I want to share.

    A few months ago, I shared on my Instagram these words: “If you are EVER at a place where you are entering my journey, please message me. If the shame and guilt is louder in your head then the gentle words of ‘you can do this,’ come find me and let’s talk. Don’t make this decision in secret. Don’t take a life to make yours seem better for a few days. Don’t quit the hard fight of holding your shameful head up. Don’t cause your self more pain by closing your eyes, and seeing that little life that could have told you, ‘Thank you for keeping me.’ My heart is telling me that there may be other girls that follow me and are struggling with your decision on whether to tell your family, friends, and community you have an unplanned pregnancy. Guess what? God’s still in the unplanned, and I see it daily in my sweet baby girl.”

    Since then, I’ve had the opportunity to help 4 girls that are pregnant teenagers.

    I recently met with a girl that comes from a strong “Christian” family and attended a Christian high school. She had an abortion scheduled. She messaged me wondering how I decided to keep my little girl, terrified that her family will not accept her and the community with judge her—so much that an abortion was her only option in her mind. I was able to bring truth and light to her dark thoughts through my story. She canceled her abortion for the next morning and she is now on her pregnancy journey with her parents in full support.

    I believe our generation needs to make a difference on this choice of life. We need to bring it back to the One who gives us life, and gave His life up for ours. I am so thankful that God is redeeming my story and that if my journey can help one girl at a time, I will do my best to bring Jesus to the forefront of the darkest thoughts.

    I am also thankful that I have found myself at this church. It’s been a healing place for me and I feel no shame when I enter here, so thank you for the great job that you do on loving different stories.

  • Just in Time to Save Their Daughter

    Just in Time to Save Their Daughter

    Tricia and her husband Scott spent long years wishing for a child. They tried for many years to conceive, and when they never did, they decided to start the adoption journey. They became an active couple, hoping to be paired with a child who needed a home, but after a few years of waiting with no responses they became discouraged.

    “We thought, maybe God had other plans for us,” Tricia said. “We committed to thoroughly spoiling our nieces and nephews.”

    Meanwhile, an acquaintance of Scott’s through work was facing her own difficulties. She was pregnant, but not ready to care for a child and didn’t want her family to know about it.

    One night, Tricia and Scott received a Facebook message from her, asking if they would ever consider adopting from someone they know.

    “This was someone who was very supportive when she learned we were hoping to adopt,” Tricia said. “She said she would even share our information if she ever encountered someone looking for options. When she reached out because she was pregnant, we said, of course we would!”

    Tricia and Scott were thrilled at the possibility of receiving the child into their home. They were even more grateful and surprised when they heard the story behind the woman’s inspiration to contact them.

    “She was going to terminate—she was actually on her way to the appointment, but she said she remembered Scott and I, and how much we wanted a baby but couldn’t have one. She realized the weight of her decision and decided to reach out to us.” Tricia said.

    They soon finalized the paperwork to become her adoptive parents, and on October 7th, 2017, Tricia and Scott were in the delivery room while Kyndal was born.

    “It was kind of like coming full circle,” Tricia said, explaining that she was also adopted.

    After Kyndal’s birth, there was a 30-day period in which the birth mother could change her mind about the adoption.

    “This was almost more stressful than the years we spent waiting to be matched,” Tricia said. “We were pretty sure she wouldn’t change her mind because she had such a good understanding with us, but there’s always that ‘what if?’”

    Eventually the 30 days were over, and Kyndal has spent two happy years at home with Tricia and Scott.

    “She is the sweetest, most beautiful blessing,” Tricia said. “It was all definitely orchestrated by God. I just think, if we had even had children when we were first trying, Kyndal might never have been born.”

    Tricia acknowledged the long and difficult period of waiting during the adoption process was a necessary part of the story. A small misunderstanding in their paperwork caused years of waiting without a match, even though their profile had very high views from birth parents looking for a couple.

    “But again, if we had been paired with a child any sooner, our Kyndal may never have been born,” she said.

    Kyndal’s is an open adoption, and she her birth mother has visited a few times. Tricia will often send texts with pictures.

    Tricia recalled a conversation she had with Kyndal’s birth mom once. Kyndal’s birth mom had said that instead of feeling the guilt she thought would accompany placing Kyndal for adoption, she is happy knowing that Kyndal is in good hands.

    “It gives me peace knowing her birth mom is also at peace” Tricia said,

    Tricia received permission from Kyndal’s birth mother to share their story, because they both hope it might bring peace to people experiencing life’s difficulties—in the painful times of being unable to have children, and in the uncertainty of unexpected.

    “God is always faithful,” Tricia said.

  • Choosing Life When Life Is Not an Option

    Choosing Life When Life Is Not an Option

    When Rachel Sobolic heard about New York and the many states pushing for unlimited abortion access, she knew she had to join the conversation.

    “Hearing people argue that late-term abortion is necessary for medical reasons—it’s just not true, and it’s my story they are using to argue for this,” Rachel said.

    Rachel and her husband had been trying for years to conceive a child. Rachel had twin teenage daughters before their marriage, and she and her husband wanted to continue to grow their family. When they found out they were finally pregnant, they were overjoyed, and went to get early blood work done to discover the gender of their long-awaited child.

    At 15 weeks, they discovered their baby was a girl, but were also given the heartbreaking news that their daughter likely had Turner syndrome.

    “It was basically a death sentence,” Rachel said. “The doctors told us that most babies with this condition pass before 12 weeks, and if she was born there would be challenges like growth issues, missing chambers of her heart, and other health issues. It was extremely devastating.”

    They immediately scheduled a follow-up ultrasound at a hospital to further examine the diagnosis. This ultrasound brought further bad news: it indicated that the baby had developed fetal hydrops and cystic hygroma.

    It was at that point that the hospital doctor told them most mothers facing this condition chose to terminate the pregnancy. He explained the process, telling them it would be a common and safe medical procedure. He said he would simply inject a medicine to stop the heart, and their fetus would pass peacefully.

    “It wasn’t until we left the hospital that the full effect of what he was saying sunk in,” Rachel said. “He made it sound so normal and covered in medical terms. Then, all of a sudden I realized—oh my goodness, he wants us to abort our baby.”

    Rachel remembers grieving and struggling for days after the diagnosis. When she and her husband faced the decision, they knew they could only choose life for their child. There was a small chance that she would live outside of the womb, but even knowing that she would not live long, they knew her life was not theirs to take.

    “I remember going over what the hospital doctor had said—that he would inject medicine to stop her heart, a heart that was already struggling so hard to live as it was. I could not imagine that as an option,” Rachel said. “To have the first thing to come out of his mouth as a medical professional be about termination—it was very difficult to hear.”

    Rachel and her husband were happy to find their obstetrician’s office was much more receptive to their choice to allow their daughter to live. Rachel remembers that one staff member gave her a prayer book, and the entire staff called her baby by her name: Jolie.

    “This was a much better experience.” Rachel said. “They were so supportive. They told me I could come right in at any time with any questions: if you haven’t heard her move in a while, or if you just want to see her, come right in.”

    Once they had chosen life, that path continued to present challenges. There became a risk of Rachel developing mirror symptoms to the baby’s condition, which could result in life-threatening heart failure for Rachel. She had to go in to get her blood pressure monitored every other day and constantly monitor it herself between visits.

    “Even then, abortion was not necessary to save my life,” said Rachel. “If it ever came to a point where my life was seriously in question, they would have induced labor rather than abortion.”

    Every week that Jolie continued to live was a new blessing for Rachel and her family and a new shock to doctors who thought she wouldn’t make it past 12 weeks.

    “I knew her little life, however long, had a purpose,” Rachel said.

    At 23 weeks, they met with an NICU team and began to talk about chances of a live birth. But at 25 weeks, on Rachel’s birthday, Jolie passed away. After a peaceful delivery, they were able to hold her, cry with her, and say goodbye as a family.

    After hearing about the decisions in New York, Rachel reflected on what life would have looked like if they would have taken the initial recommendation to terminate the pregnancy.

    “I cannot even fathom—had I gone through that way—how I could get by day to day, how I could get through Mother’s Day and other holidays,” Rachel said. “Now I can go to the cemetery; I have somewhere I can go bring flowers and grieve.”

    Rachel wishes doctors would be encouraged to offer real support to families who experience a tragic diagnosis during pregnancy, rather than push for a “solution” that could only bring more pain.

    “I was just devastated to hear that my exact situation was a situation they were giving as a reason for abortion so late in a pregnancy,” Rachel said.

    Two years after Jolie passed, Rachel and her husband joyfully welcomed a new son to their family. He’s now 8 months old. They were blessed with a smooth pregnancy and a healthy baby.

    “My ob-gyn office was so happy to see me again,” Rachel said. “They all remembered me and Jolie by name and were so glad I was having another child.”

    Rachel is eager to share Jolie’s story, and to speak out against the idea that abortion is the only reasonable option for babies who likely would not live long, or even when the pregnancy could potentially affect the mother’s health.

    Having every unexpected day with Jolie was a gift that Rachel said she would not trade for anything.

  • Valuable Life in Every Circumstance

    Valuable Life in Every Circumstance

    Everyone can agree, finding a cure for a disability or illness is a reason to celebrate. When Lauren Schaidt saw a headline announcing the elimination of Down syndrome in Denmark, she thought it would be a celebratory article.

    “I thought great, they must have found a way to prevent it,” Lauren said.

    However, a terrifying trend in society today is eliminating the disabled instead of the disability. As she read the full article, Lauren had a very different reaction.

    “I read that it was because they had been aborting the babies who were diagnosed in the womb—I was horrified,” she said.

    Abortion rates for babies with Down syndrome in Denmark have reached nearly 100 percent, eliminating nearly every child with Down syndrome in that country. The problem is not just contained to Denmark. A 2012 University of South Carolina study looked at 25 separate studies about the number of Down syndrome abortions and found an average of 67 percent of children diagnosed with Down syndrome in the womb are aborted.

    Even though there are endless examples of people living joyful and fulfilling lives with Down syndrome, it is still difficult for today’s culture to see a human person as more than just their disability.

    Lauren has her own experience of being seen only for her disability. She was diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis (JRA) as a baby. Juvenile rheumatoid arthritis is a type of arthritis usually appearing in children under 16 and has varying degrees of severity. It’s also referred to as juvenile idiopathic arthritis. In Lauren’s case, she had to use a wheelchair or crutches throughout most of her childhood and teenage years.

    Lauren is now a Spanish teacher at Lutheran High School North in Macomb, Michigan. Several surgeries eventually helped Lauren to walk without assistance.  Though she is still affected by arthritis, she can do so many more things than she could have imagined as a child.

    Throughout her childhood, Lauren said many people would only focus on the things she could not do, not all the things she can do. People would give her pitying looks or comments as they walked by her. Once she was asked to be a part of a television ad to support research for her condition. She was only five years old, but she remembers how she felt about the experience.

    “I had to sit there as someone talked about all the things I was unable to do,” she said. “The intention was good: to support research for this cause. But I didn’t like the way they were portraying my life. I thought, this is not me.”

    Lauren remembers telling her mom how she felt about it, and her mom made sure they didn’t run an ad with her in it.

    “Disability itself is a negative, but I didn’t equate that with my life,” Lauren said. “I didn’t want that to be my story. There are so many good parts about my life, too.”

    Lauren enjoys telling her story of hope to encourage other people with disabilities and their parents, showing there is more to the story than the disability itself.

    “Discovering a disability can be a scary thing, but I want people to know that it can be okay, your child can be okay,” she said. “The big question people ask is: what quality of life do disabled people have? Well, I have a great quality of life. Some people can’t imagine that, but I want to show it to them.”

    Suffering, Lauren explained, is poorly understood by our culture that seems to believe the lives of the disabled aren’t worth living, including children with Down syndrome.

    “People don’t realize the joy you can experience through pain and suffering,” Lauren said. “Yes, you hope to make it through, but there are also so many blessings along the way.”

    Lauren attributed her faith in God as a huge factor in helping her deal with suffering. She said the Bible verse Romans 8:28 is a powerful inspiration for her, because it says that God will bring good out of every circumstance.

    Lauren hopes that the many people who are faced with life and death decisions relating to children with Down syndrome or other disabilities can come to realize the important truth: their life always has value.

    “Life is always a gift from God,” she said. “In every circumstance or stage.”

  • Luke Pardue, Worthy of Life

    Luke Pardue, Worthy of Life

    It has been ten years since wefirst metMartina Pardue and her son, Luke. Since we last talked to her, Luke has been thriving, growing, and has even become a big brother.

    When Martina was just 10 weeks pregnant she was told her son might have Down syndrome. The doctor who performed the amniocentesis test offered abortion as an option for Luke. Even with his diagnosis, Martina and her husband always knew Luke belonged in this world.

    With a more recent focus on Down syndrome in the media, it is important to share the stories of people with Down syndrome who have touched those around them. Sadly, many in society view those with Down syndrome as less than a full person.

    “Down syndrome is not a bad thing,” Martina said. “It bothered me when he was born, and it still bothers me today that people think that.”

    Studies show that anywhere between 61% to 93% of children diagnosed with Down syndrome in the womb are aborted. Those children never had the chance at life that Luke is enjoying today.

    Luke is 11 years old and thriving. He will be starting 6th grade in the fall and is mainstreamed and integrated into a general education classroom. This past year he even received straight A’s. He excels at reading, which he learned at 18 months, and is a great speller. He plays soccer, participates in karate and enjoys American Ninja Warrior-style obstacle courses.

    Martina said Luke is doing so well that some of the kids in his class have been known to try to cheat off of him. She’s not too worried, though.

    “When I hear about kids trying to cheat off him, I just laugh,” Martina said. “I think it’s hysterical.”

    Children dreading geography tests on state capitols have no greater friend than Luke. Martina said Luke has a talent to memorize things quickly. Luke was able to learn all the United States and their capitols just by looking at a map for 10 minutes.

    “You can tell him a capitol, and he will tell you a state, or you can tell him a state and he will tell you the capitol,” Martina said.

    At school the kids adore Luke. At recess he also enjoys playing basketball or swinging with his friends.

    “The girls adore him,” Martina said. “I think I am in trouble when he gets to high school. They fight over who is going to push him on the swings.”

    Life with Down syndrome does have its challenges.

    “Everybody with Down syndrome is different,” Martina said. “He is high functioning, but it is a lot of work. My husband and I have worked hard to capitalize on everything he could do. I would never tell him he couldn’t do anything.”

    Martina said she is worried about when Luke moves into middle school soon. Some of his current classmates who have been around him and love him will be there to give him a high five in the halls. Other classmates might not have been exposed to someone with Down syndrome before, however.

    “Fear is the worst thing in the world because it stops people,” Martina said.

    Martina said people need to open up to get to know those with Down syndrome. She believes that when you get to know someone with Down syndrome you will realize how filled with love they are. That love can have a life-changing impact. When Luke was just two years old, Martina saw first-hand the impact he can have on others.

    “He changed someone in my life close to me on abortion,” said Martina. “They said, ‘I give you credit because I would have aborted.’ A year and a half later they are laughing together. The thought process and the outlook on Down syndrome that he has changed is amazing. It is crazy to know that my son did that.”

    Luke is a shining light to more than just his parents and little brother. He has managed to save a life, simply by being Luke.

    “I said it 10 years ago, and I still say it today: Luke has accomplished more in his life than I ever will,” Martina said.

  • Successful RU-486 Reversal Shows the Power of Prolife Community

    Successful RU-486 Reversal Shows the Power of Prolife Community

    It isn’t every day that life comes full circle. It also isn’t every day that you are able to save a life.

    Recently Alpha Family Center in Lowell was able to experience both when a luncheon speech they heard more than a year ago proved to be the difference between life and death for one of their clients.

    Quarterly Grand Rapids Right to Life hosts their Support Services Luncheon. The many prolife pregnancy help organizations in Grand Rapids come together at the luncheon to discuss different projects they are working on. The guest speaker at one of the 2016 luncheons was Dr. Kim Barrows, who talked about a process to reverse RU-486 abortions (also known as the abortion pill or mifepristone). Abortion pill reversal was a relatively new idea and many pregnancy centers were not aware of it.

    Christa Wetzel, executive director of Alpha Family Center in Lowell, said, “After hearing about this, we knew this was something that they needed to know more about. This was a really monumental moment for us that God created. I truly believe he created this reversal so that we could help these women.”

    The Grand Rapids area hosts a surprising number of prolife organizations and growing resources for women and men facing crisis pregnancies. Alpha Family Center in Lowell was born out of this community, and has been a beacon of hope for women in crisis pregnancies for years.

    In 2016 Alpha Family Center was able to expand their services and become a licensed medical facility after receiving an ultrasound machine as a gift. The machine was made possible by an individual making a significant donation and a handful of others who raised the needed funds in one week’s time. Christa said they’ve put a lot of effort into expanding their outreach in the community. For them the abortion pill reversal information was just one additional tool to use to expand their mission.

    Following the luncheon, Christa discussed the new information with Mandy German, a physician assistant and Alpha Family Center’s medical director. Mandy was then able to receive the required training to administer the progesterone shots that can reverse the deadly effects of the RU-486 abortion pill. Because of her training, Mandy is listed on the Abortion Pill Reversal website and can provide the service independently from Alpha Family Center or other pregnancy centers.

    After nearly a year, Alpha Family Center had not received a single abortion pill reversal referral. Then in mid-September, on a Friday night, they got their first referral from the abortion pill reversal hotline. The woman, “Allison,” was connected with Mandy, who walked her through the process.

    Mandy said Allison had been wavering about having an abortion, but the abortion clinic staff worked to prevent Allison from being able to think through her situation.

    Mandy said, “Before going through with the abortion, the client had gone up to the reception desk and asked what would happen if she were to change her mind. They let her know that she would have to still pay for her appointment that day. Then, rather uncoincidently, before she even had the chance to sit back down, she was called back.”

    The abortion clinic used the appointment fee as a tool to pressure Allison, and rushed through the process in order to shut down her thought process. Prolife groups have heard many stories from women who were on the fence about their abortion being cajoled into taking the abortion pill before leaving the clinic. “Choice” is often just a political buzzword, not an operating principle of abortion clinics.

    Within an hour of taking the first pill at the abortion clinic, Allison knew she had made a terrible mistake. Mandy said Allison tried to induce vomiting at home, but it was too late to stop the pill from being digested. Allison turned to the Internet to look for help, and was able to find the abortion pill reversal website.

    After calling the hotline Allison was connected to Alpha Family Center in Lowell and Mandy. Mandy knew she had to act fast if she wanted to save the life of this young mother’s child.

    Mandy said, “The abortion pill reversal network was extremely helpful. They had already called the local pharmacy to make sure that they had the medicine there and ready to go for us.”

    The same evening Mandy got the call, she was able to administer the potentially life-saving hormone progesterone. Progesterone is the same common hormone used to help prevent miscarriages in high-risk pregnancies. The first pill of the RU-486 regimen denies needed progesterone to the unborn child.

    Mandy said, “We administered the progesterone on Friday, and I was able to keep in contact with the client all weekend through texting. The client was very sick from both of the medicines, so I was able to keep in contact with her in case she had any questions.”

    Abortion pill reversals are still being studied to determine the overall success rate. The website lists a current success rate of 55 percent, and in additional research the doctors studying the treatments claim to be successful in 60 to 70 percent of cases.

    Mandy referred Allison back to Alpha Family Center in Lowell for an ultrasound the following Wednesday. Everyone knew heading into the ultrasound room that there was a significant chance that Allison’s baby wasn’t going to make it, despite their best efforts.

    In the beginning of the ultrasound appointment, there was no movement from the baby. After several long, tense, anxious moments, some movement finally appeared on the screen. Allison’s baby decided to wave at everyone. This is a rare feat since the baby was just 10 weeks along.

    Mandy said, “This was truly amazing. My heart dropped knowing we were able to help her.” Christa was thrilled the team at Alpha Family Center made the life-saving difference.

    Christa said, “During the process the woman kept saying, ‘Wow this is amazing! Why don’t more people know about this?’”

    Alpha Family Center is making an effort to increase awareness about this potentially life-saving treatment. They’ve been handing out abortion pill reversal literature in the care packages they give to clients. Christa said the care packages are a wonderful and needed tool.

    Christa said, “There are some basic things in there like body wash and prenatal vitamins, but there is also information in there to help them in their decision making process, as we consider many of these women to be abortion vulnerable.”

    Allison’s baby hasn’t been born yet, but the future is bright. This story is only possible because of the circle of prolife doctors, organizations, and volunteers that came together to make this simple, life-saving treatment available.

    For more information about the abortion pill reversal process, please visit the APR website at www.abortionpillreversal.com. For pregnancy help in your local area, visit our pregnancy help listings. Right to Life of Michigan also makes informational rack cards on abortion pill reversal available to pregnancy centers and sidewalk counselors.